Waking up in Lahore: The idea of Pakistan - Mappings

Waking up in Lahore: The idea of Pakistan

Jyoti Malhotra - Monday, May 19, 2008 1:18 PM

The idea of waking up in Lahore is something you’ve held onto for most of your life, a small little secret, tightly guarded, only to be shared with the few who breathe the same unspoken dream. Half of you even hopes this will never come true. Oh to wake up in Lahore and walk through Anarkali bazaar, gorge yourself on the austere lines of Aurangzeb’s Badshahi mosque, drive down Mall Road, and end up at the Government College, where your father and all your friends’ fathers must have studied – once upon a time, long, long ago. And so, here I am back in Lahore, certainly, indisputably, one of the most interesting cities in the world. Lahore is the heart of the subcontinent, not Delhi.

The Urdu is so beautifully spoken (“aapka paigam Mian Nawaz Sharif tak pahunch gaya hai mohtarma”), it puts the vulgarized Hindi spoken on the streets of the capital back home so completely to shame.  Here is where cultures jostle for attention. At the Avari hotel where I am staying (total luxury at astoundingly sensible rates for Indian journalists!), there’s a tablet erected on the outside wall in the memory of Khorshed Avari, by her husband, Dinshaw Avari. May the Almighty Ahura Mazda grant her soul eternal peace in heaven, it says. Parsis in Pakistan? Sure, peel the layers of Pakistani society and the unfairly-held perceptions of this being a monochromatic culture slowly disappear.

Partition may have emptied most Hindus and Sikhs from this country (more’s the pity, says Ejaz Haider, executive editor of the `Daily Times’ newspaper) but in so many ways Pakistan remains one of the best kept secrets in the world. The gulf between the idea of Pakistan and reality is so enormous it could be funny, if it wasn’t so tragic. The flight from Delhi to Lahore is hardly 45 minutes long, and its full of returning Pakistanis. Khurram, a young manager with Pepsi in Lahore was in Delhi to partake of Indra Nooyi’s inclusive experiment. Madeeha was in Mumbai to condole the death of her mother-in-law’s brother. Humayun Bangash, a former corps commander, had flown in to attend a gathering of ex-soldiers from both sides (what delicious irony!). But where are the Indians? “Veer Zara” may have been Bollywood’s gift to Heer Ranjha or Sohni-Mahiwal or so many other love stories littered across the sub-continent, but shouldn’t Lahore, South Asia’s most cosmopolitan city, be crawling with turbans from across the border, barely an hour away by road? 

Okay, so I’m in Lahore, and counting every blessing that inspired my week-long visa to Pakistan. But how can I leave this blog without leaving you a line by the popular Punjabi singer Taj Multani, that is said to have moved none other than Faiz Ahmed Faiz, the poet whose spirit epitomises this city. Ishq hai sada pir, sang Multani Religion is my love.  

By the time you wake up in Lahore, you’ve always known that’s true.

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From SRKHAN

May 20, 2008 12:57 AM
INDEED. PERCEPTION IN INDIA OF PAKISTAN IS TOTALLY WRONG. INFACT I HAVE NOT MET ONE INDIAN WHO'S BEEN TO PAKISTAN AND NOT HEARD THEM TALKING ABOUT HOW WRONG THEY WERE ABOUT THEIR PERCEPTION OF PAKISTAN. AS WRITER DESCRIBED, LAHORE IN PERTICULAR IS MOST FASCINATING PLACE IN SUBCONTINENT. ONE MUST VISIT TO EXPERIENCE IT.

From Gayatri

May 20, 2008 5:23 AM
reading this well written article revisits the one regret I have ....never having been to Paksistan, especially Lahore, land of my forefathers, the place both my parents came from . One day inshallah!

From Farid

May 20, 2008 8:40 AM
Salam Alaikum i have had the distinct pleasure of waking up in Lahore many times, having been there 6 times (inshallah #7 soon). it is indeed a beautiful city with some of the most wonderful architecture (and people) in the world. only problem i have found is the traffic and noise pollution but that is improving, inshallah. i wish more people could have the experience.

From Wilson

May 20, 2008 10:47 AM
dear jyoti good to read your take on Lahore....great city; an ancient city on the crossroads of trade and culture for centuries... i wish (and I hope I will) visiting it sometime....keep blogging! till then.

From Madhu

May 20, 2008 12:07 PM
Jyoti, beautifully said. The feeling of missing out on that part of our lives, unlived but close to our hearts as a part of our parents, will only be complete once I visit -- maybe some day!

From Seeme Khan

May 20, 2008 2:48 PM
Love the blog. When I go to Lahore and start speaking Punjabi,my American born and raised kids,make fun of me. They say all we hear is,"E-thee,e-thee,e-thee". Regardless I have great fun. Ps,Ishaq mera pir,really means,"Love is my guide".Pir is a person who is your spirtual guide.So in this case,love is my pir. Keep writting your Lahori blogs. Have a great trip.

From Hamood

May 22, 2008 3:10 AM
Jyoti, I am one of those people who clearly understand what you mean. Born and raised in Lahore, all these places that you mention still leave me in awe every time I visit. My visits have become fewer and fewer since I am living in USA or Canada since '95. Every once in a while I get a craving for Lahore which is inexplicable. I am glad you're having a wonderful time in Pakistan.

From sudhir kumar

May 22, 2008 4:18 PM
dear jyoti you are indeed very fortunate to visit lahore.Has it ever occured to you that why every thing about that country is beyond words ? mull over this May be your parents and their parents belonged to what now is pakistan and that's where your roots are or you belong to ,so what if you were born in free india . I have not been as lucky as you but long for visiting places my parents belonged to. every time I went abroad I yearned to see familiar faces hear words spoken by my kin .Ican tell you that your writings will get more emotional and better with each visit god bless you.

From sudhir kumar

May 22, 2008 4:18 PM
dear jyoti you are indeed very fortunate to visit lahore.Has it ever occured to you that why every thing about that country is beyond words ? mull over this May be your parents and their parents belonged to what now is pakistan and that's where your roots are or you belong to ,so what if you were born in free india . I have not been as lucky as you but long for visiting places my parents belonged to. every time I went abroad I yearned to see familiar faces hear words spoken by my kin .Ican tell you that your writings will get more emotional and better with each visit god bless you.

From Qasim Jafri

May 22, 2008 6:12 PM
What a fascinating account. As a Lahorite I would like to welcome all of you to this City, again and again and again.........

From Qasim Jafri

May 22, 2008 6:19 PM
To return the compliment from Lahore I emailed to you a short account of my travel titled 'Travelogue INDIA' penned a couple of years ago after a lovely visit to Delhi, Lucknow and Udaipur. Hope you got it.

From sheraz

May 24, 2008 12:27 PM
I am basically from Lahore but live in UK. Joyti has described Lahore very well. Its a very fine city with loads of good historical background. I miss its beauty and all the people. I just would like to add in this discussion that ' Jinay Lahore nai dekhya oh Jamya hi nai' ( who has not seen Lahore has not born yet).

From Rai Naveed Sultan

May 26, 2008 2:02 AM
Beautiful words Jyoti. I being born and brought up in Lahore have been deeply impressed by ur blog because sometimes when u have something u just ignore its importance so same is my case as being a Lahorite I just neglect sometimes how lucky I m to be an inhabitant of this colourful and lively city and believe me the love we have for Indian people (our brothers and sisters) is beyond words and I sometimes feel how for so many years we were being fooled by our politicians and mass media by giving wrong perceptions of these two great countries of the world. And as far as Indians coming to Lahore is concern I have just one message for them " jee aaya nu " -- as a welcome I have love for you and thats all .......

From john

May 26, 2008 11:50 PM
have a nice blogs,:) lahore is verry beautiful city.

From Arif Khan

June 3, 2008 4:39 PM
I got to Lahore at 3 pm, for a day long break, on a non-stop flight from Toronto. At 7.30 pm that same evening I was settling in to watch the play "Bulla" a production of the Ajoka Theatre. As their website states Ajoka has been part of the struggle for a secular, democratic, just, humane and egalitarian Pakistan for the last 21 years. Entry was free so I was seated with the a group of about 900 people that truly represented Lahore society. The rich, the poor, intellectuals as well as those whole obviously had limited formal education. All age groups were represented, from the very young to the elderly. There were even a few Sardars present; I assume they were from India, though my host later told me that they could well have been present day residents of Lahore. Bulla and his Sufi spirituality still has that appeal and following in Punjab contrary to popular belief that all Pakistanis are now Muslims of the Saudi strict fashion. The following morning at dawn (5.30 am) I was cheerfully driven by the driver/majordomo (family member) Muzammil to the Badshahi Mosque in order to take photos in the early morning light. Still lost in the spirit of Bulla.. Dil sey beysakhta baat nikli..."Chal we Bulleya chal uthey chaliye.." and Muzammil completed the verse for me " Jithey raindey saarey anney...Na koi saadi zaat pehchaney, Na koi sanoo manney". I discovered that Muzammil had been to see "Bulla" twice and knew all his poetry. As we drove to the mosque it was delight to talk about Bulleh Shah and all his qawwalis that I had heard the night before. Every time I would start a shair, Muzammil would complete it and take the conversation further. What a delight that morning was!! Muzammil Zindabad!! Lahore Zindabad!! May the spirit of Bulleh Shah live forever in the heart of Lahore. Here are the photos: http://www.pbase.com/arifakhan/badshahi_masjid

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