Ties that bind... - Still single in the city

Ties that bind...

Sushmita Bose - Monday, September 22, 2008 8:41 PM

It's been a strange turnaround for Bollywood. In the 1980s, when I was growing up and beginning to form my own opinions, it was hopelessly déclassé to watch Hindi films; if you even had a bone of pedigree in your skeletal system, you wouldn't be caught dead looking at Sridevi in a frilly dress and Jeetendra in his trademark white shoes singing songs like "Ice cream khayogi? Disco pe jaogi?"

(Of course, there were a few movies -- Shakti, for instance, or Ijazzat -- which were 80s vintage, but that passed muster.)

Now, it's a different story. Bollywood is now a billion-dollar industry; it's posh, and genteel and global and all of that, and it's the coolest thing to walk into a multiplex in Ghaziabad and get a lounge-class ticket for Rs 300.

A few days ago, I watched a movie in my hotel room in Dubai, called Bandhan Kachche Dhaagon Ka - which means ties made of (or with) delicate threads (the sort that snap easily). This, I actually went and checked online, was the classic déclassé vintage. The movie released in 1983.

If I had been in Delhi, and the movie had been playing on any of the satellite channels, I'd have pushed the remote button very, very hard, so that I didn't have to witness a single frame even.

In Dubai, I couldn't take my eyes off the screen.

It was weird, but I felt a sense of binding because it was Bollywood - and I seemed to derive a huge amount of comfort from the fact. I'm pretty certain that if Donnie Brasco or My Best Friend's Wedding or Seinfeld or EVEN The Simpsons was being telecast on another channel, I'd have given it a slip. And happily watched Bandhan Kachche Dhaagon Ka.

A friend called from Delhi (because I had been cribbing how expensive it is to make ISD calls from Dubai), and I asked him to call me back later. "I'm watching a great film," I explained excitedly.

"You call me then," he said angrily.

Oh, okay, I muttered good-naturedly - a state of being that, of late, has become almost alien for me.

I went back to watching a portly Shashi Kapoor, who's called Prem, get all lovey-dovey with his wife Rakhee (Bhavna), while one son and one daughter dutifully romp around them. It's the perfect family album.

But then it's not.

Prem gets a call from Sneha - played by Zeenat Aman - and his life turns upside down. Here's why.

Prem and Sneha had gotten wet once in the rain (while on a business trip), sung a song, and cuddled up together (even though naughty boy Prem was married to Bhavna, and already had the two adorable kids by then).

Then, Bittu is born to Sneha. He's Prem's nishaani. But of course, Prem doesn't know a thing. Then, he finds out because Sneha calls him to tell him that she's dying of gastric cancer and that he better take care of Bittu.

Bittu is quick on the uptake, even though he's only 8 or 9, and tells Prem that he'll call him "sir", not "papa", so that Bhavna aunty doesn't get suspicious. Having said that, Bittu comes to stay with Prem and Bhavna (who thinks Bittu is Sneha's son by some other man), while Sneha, clutching her stomach (because she has gastric cancer) goes to the US for treatment.

There's also Prem Chopra, who tries to blackmail everyone in the cast.

I could go on and on with this amazing story, but I don't want to kill the suspense. Please watch it at your own risk.

I loved the movie to distraction. I have no idea why.

 

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From Abhiroop

September 22, 2008 10:06 PM
I once watched a full Tamil movie without understanding a single word and enjoyed it. "Bandhan Kachhe Dhaago Ka" sounds suspiciously like the Naseer-Shabana wala Shekhar Kapoor directed film Masoom, also, made in 1983!

From Pawandeep

September 22, 2008 10:24 PM
Yes, it was a good movie. Tell, me how your mother reacted to you being in Dubai single....?

From gaurav

September 22, 2008 10:59 PM
ohhh so witty sush is finally back bringing smiles on her avid fans!!!!dat wot u did inside ur hotel room in dubai..but wot will b more intersting is wot were u doing outside hotel in streets n clubs of dubai....n dat too a SINGLE lady..really looking forward to ur experiences sush!!

From Rishi

September 23, 2008 12:01 AM
welcome back sushmita have seen both bandhan kac.......and masoom and let me tell u i found masoom to be really engrossing. by the way do u know masoom has Urmila and jugal hansraj playing the roles of kids.

From pooja

September 23, 2008 7:45 PM
thanks sushmita for letting me know abt ur blog. its interesting....feels like being in touch again. Hope u r enjoying dubai...me writing dis frm bhutan as of now. n cud very well understand what it feels to c bollywood in an unknown/new country. i saw hum kisi se kam nahin last week... ha ha....kaha tha na similar contexts...kuch to hai! keep going wishes

From Abhijit

September 24, 2008 10:08 PM
Thanks susmita for your guidence , yesterday unable to search it out . Your recent experience in dubai to see a old hindi cenema from a long distance similar to my feelings to see "Pothe holo deri " of uttam suchitra last sunday .

From Mitra Kalita

September 25, 2008 12:00 AM
Welcome to Bollystan, the somewhat newish word for those of who actually welcome exile. Coined by author Parag Khanna and dissected in this piece: http://www.foreignpolicy.com/users/login.php?story_id=2761&URL=http://www.foreignpolicy.com/story/cms.php?story_id=2761

From Manish

September 25, 2008 12:29 AM
hey yaara thnx for informing me about the blog... nice to hear from you after what seemed to me like ages... u seemed to have enjoyed ur dubai trip watching some guuuud muvies.. :)

From shabreen

September 29, 2008 8:30 AM
hiez.....thanx for the link.m jst toooo happy to see u again!!welcom back!!

From Ankit Sablok

October 13, 2008 8:00 PM
thanks for replying to my e-mail and for also giving me the lnformation about ur blog as desired by me. 1nce again welcome back with the new name of ur column STILL SINGLE IN THE CITY. Happy Blogging.

From sushmita

October 15, 2008 7:32 PM
thanks ankit!

From latha

October 23, 2008 11:31 AM
old heroines, like Zeenat, Parveen Babi, then sridevi, hema etc were a class apart. The present day heroines lack their charisma, this is my personal feeling. I do not watch any of them. I would rather spend my time watching animal planet, discovery, travel & living etc. We get to see a lot of places, people, their lifestyle, food etc. through these channels which is not possible otherwise. But when we are away from home we will watch even a flop or boring hindi film because that to some extent gives the feeling of being at home.

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