Nostalgia and Longing in Hong Kong - Still single in the city

Nostalgia and Longing in Hong Kong

Sushmita Bose - Sunday, December 14, 2008 3:01 PM

I've discovered an express delivery outlet (food obviously, what else?) near the Khaleej Times office called Indian Tadka. You have to order lunch by 11.30 (that's the outer limit), and the food comes by 1 - and it's really, really yummy. There are soft ghee-smeared chapattis, rice, a dal (at times rajma or kadi pakora), and two subzis, and raita, and when the Indian Tadka people are feeling particularly generous, they also pack in some halwa or a gulab jamun. It's heaven, bang in the middle of the arid industrial area (called Al Quoz) where the KT office is.

While I was in Hong Kong a few weeks ago, I sorely missed Indian Tadka. I was getting really fed up with Chinese food. It's very strange. Most Indians I know love Chinese khaana. But in India, even "authentic" Chinese is so very, very Indianised - you realise this each time you visit places in the Far East, and, of course, China. In Hong Kong, for instance, the smell of cooking on the roads made me want to gag - there is an eternal bland-and-sickly-sweet monotonousness to it. And it's the same smell everywhere.

Otherwise, Hong Kong is pretty, very pretty. There are sublime skyscrapers, pretty blue mountains you can drive up through, a sparkling harbour, pristine beaches, great shopping places, spectacular views - and one of the best public transport systems in the world. I got into a tram after years, and it had a kind of a soppy association for me. When I went to school in Calcutta, I used to catch a tram that went right in front of my school. The bus station used to be a bit of a walk - so even though trams were slower, I preferred them. If I caught the one at 7.25 am, I'd reach school by 7.50, and classes started at 8, so I had a 10-minute breather. My brother, on the other hand, used to walk it to school (it was a good 4 kms away) because he wanted to save the ticket money and buy himself junk food.

But while in Calcutta, a genial, uniformed conductor used to come and sell tickets (they still do), in Hong Kong you have to drop 2 HK dollars into a turnstile-like thing that gobbles up the change. And yes, it's a flat rate, wherever you go, however long the journey is.

For those of you who want to know more about HK - as seen through the eyes of a tourist, I am adding a couple of paras from the travel piece that I did in Khaleej Times. Those of you who have already read this, please bear with me, it's only a couple of little paras!

"The Victoria Peak, the highest point in Hong Kong, that is absolutely stunning, encompassing in one sweep the staggered skyline, the sunlight-spangled blue sea, and the blue mountains in the background. There's the charming Cafe Deco right up there, where you can tuck in to a seafood lunch and drink in the breathtaking skyline. It is propagated that a trip to Hong Kong is incomplete without soaking in the Symphony of Lights, the nocturnal multimedia show named the "World's Largest Permanent Light & Sound Show" by The Guinness Book of World Records. So, we dutifully went on a cruise while the show was on, basking in the sights and sounds. Then, there is the Avenue of Stars, where there are handprints of Jackie Chan and Chow Yun Fat, and a life-size statue of The Boss of kung-fu Bruce Lee. And, of course, there is Disneyland, from where my most significant takeaway was a massive, stuffed Pluto who I thought I'd get for my niece, but have changed my mind since. He's staying with me, no two ways about it - that's probably what Disneyland does to you." (By the way, there's also Ocean Park - where we didn't go to.)

Pluto (he's oh-so-adorable) has a pink tongue hanging out, and he wears a perpetually excited look on his face. When I bought him, Brian, my British friend - with who I struck up a firm friendship on the trip -- looked at me suspiciously. "I'm buying him for my niece, she's three months old," I muttered defensively. "There's no way you're giving Pluto away - your face says it all," he stated. He was so right.

Oh, I loved this story that I heard. I wrote about it in my KT piece, but here goes again. The prefix to this is that Hong Kong rents are exorbitant (but probably not as much as Dubai!), and space is at a premium. The city grows vertically - there's no lateral space - and you'd be really lucky to get a 600 sq feet apartment. Families live in single rooms. Even so, HSBC cocks a snook at the space crunch. I was told that the bank's headquarters, that overlooks the harbour front with the mountains behind, has an empty ground floor. It is widely believed, even by hard-headed bankers, that the dragon, who lives up in the mountains, passes through the empty first floor (with not a single telling machine getting in his way), and struts out to the harbour - where he has a drink of water, and goes back to the mountains, quenched and happy. And as long as the dragon's happy, HSBC doesn't have to worry about the market meltdown.

Wow, I thought, that was so cool!

One of the great things about Dubai is that it's so much like India - and I'm not talking about the food here (although that counts too). Plus, it's so close to Delhi. I mean, it's almost as close (or far) as Calcutta is to Delhi. This time, when I was on the flight to Delhi, the announcer said that the total journey time is 2 hours 40 minutes. It's a comforting thought, the closeness.

I have a friend in Hong Kong, who lives without his family there. His wife and son are in Calcutta, and visit him occasionally. I met him this time, and, over strong cuppas at a Pacific Coffee outlet close to the hotel where I was putting up, he told me that he spends his weekends cooking for himself, and cleaning the house. Weekdays go by somehow because there is office to attend. "I have no friends in the city - although I hear there is an Indian expats community somewhere - and although my colleagues are extremely nice, no one really hangs out after work." On weekends, when he's through with cooking and cleaning, and there's more time on hand to kill, he takes the ferry that shuttles between Hong Kong (the island) and Kowloon (the peninsula). I thought it was a particularly poignant picture: standing on a boat, looking at the breathtaking skyline (at nights, it's even more gorgeous) with no one to turn to and exclaim in delight, going from point A to point B because you want to kill time... "Being alone in a city" must be a horrible thing. My friend says that he'll probably return home next year: it's been three years for him in HK. When I spoke to him the last time from Hong Kong (the night I was leaving), there was a lot of static on the line. "Where are you?" I asked him. "On the ferry to Kowloon," he said. Oh yeah, I remembered, it was a weekend, and he probably had lots of time to kill.

When we came back to Dubai, we flew first class - and I have to admit here, that it's the FIRST TIME that I flew first class. The person next to me was an Indian, and while I kept fumbling with the snazzy headphones (I had no clue where to plug them in) and the seating mechanism, he instructed me grandly how to go about things. "I know the ropes, you see... I usually fly first-class whenever I'm travelling," he announced grandly, while I squirmed.

It's quite something: the fact that you can get drunk on endless flutes of champagne while being miles high in the sky. I, of course, had a few swigs of the divine fluid and made a face - I hate champagne. To make matters worse, I also hate caviar. So I was the only person who gave it a go-by, while everyone else went "ooooh" and "aaaah". A flight attendant, who insisted on calling me "Ms Bose" all through the course of the journey (she first wanted to know how I pronounce my surname, and whether it rhymed with Jose, as in San Jose; no, I said, it's like Bose speakers), insisted that I convert my seat into a bed; then she handed me a "comforter" (a rezai), covered me up and stopped short of singing me a lullaby. I think I've figured out why. It's a far better idea to let passengers sleep it off, than them demanding champagne and then more champagne (especially now, with the recession and all that).

So what did I do after my wonderful HK sojourn? I landed in the middle of the night, grabbed some sleep, and hared off to office first thing in the morning. Once there, I ordered food from Indian Tadka!

 

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From Shipra

December 14, 2008 5:07 PM
HK sounds gud. And seafood tastes different even in south-east asia (i think they use some diff oil).Also first class attendants are supposed to fuss or wats the point Ms. Bose. ;)

From Akansha

December 14, 2008 5:46 PM
Awesome, awesome, loved it, enjoyed it so, so much. Please keep it up, please write more often! You put so much into the post. I feel I woild have reacted the same way if I were travelling by first class.

From sushmita

December 14, 2008 6:19 PM
the smells in HK were quite, quite different from, say, Bangkok, where it's much more neutral... of course, there are areas in BKK where you do get the sickly-sweet smell, but overall Thai cuisine has its own identity. much the same for singapore, unless u happen to be in Chinatown! HK reminded me of Beijing, where, incidentally, i happened to devour a lot of spinach -- like i did in hong kong!

From pawandeep

December 14, 2008 8:49 PM
Yes, it was nice to read about your HK tour both on KT and here. Looking back again at the Mumbai terror attack, there is lot of difference between Indian media and Pakistanis. Indian Media behaves in a very responsible manner, but I find that Pakistan media is full of drama company. If anyone want a proof, just click on this link......http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r3wPo3zfLY4

From Simer

December 14, 2008 9:58 PM
Like your friend being 'Single in the City' :-) Thats a lovely way to have a story about someone in a Sushmita way... Cheers Ms Bose

From sahil verma

December 16, 2008 1:14 PM
Thanks Sushmita, I really enjoyed the post. My colleague's cousin had been to Hong Kong recently with his wife, and it seems that they were asked difficult questions at the airport. There is visa on arrival in HK, and these two opted for that -- so they were grilled even though there were others on their flight (different nationalities) who were not. I thought it may be an interesting sidelight to point out. Why have a visa on arrival when you want to put people through such complex checks?

From sushmita

December 16, 2008 4:45 PM
yes, there is visa on arrival. in fact, i got a visa on arrival. there were issues with me, tho i must say that i was asked to get my bag scanned all over again :-) but very few indians in HK, you feel like a real foreigner :-) Mayank, thanks for the poem you sent me: do u write them in english or in Hindi? u shd get them published, very good stuff.

From sushmita

December 16, 2008 5:17 PM
guys, check out this link http://www.kroma.no/2008/bushgame/

From shipra

December 16, 2008 8:59 PM
Read about the Bush story front page today. Bet many more people felt like doing that... Ahem..Ahem.

From pawandeep

December 16, 2008 10:21 PM
Nice one. How quickly, the game has been put on net.

From sandhya panicker

December 17, 2008 1:13 PM
Hello, I moved from Bangalore to Delhi a few weeks ago to study Mass Comm, and on my third or fourth day in the city I was asked to look up your site. I was also given a detailed account for the column that you wrote for Hindustan Times. I wanted to thank you for this blog, I’m hooked on to it already. Will get back to you with more feedback soon. I notice you respond to a few comments posted, so I’m hoping you respond to this too :O

From anilatha

December 17, 2008 2:21 PM
way to go dear SSH. enjoy. But i feel that journaist could have expressed his feelings in a more dignified manner, like wearing a black badge while attending Bush's press etc.

From sushmita

December 17, 2008 3:31 PM
Hi Sandhya, welcome to the fold! Good to know that u are aleeady in the groove! Anilatha, at the morning meeting yesterday, we had a discussion as to whether it was "in good taste" to hurl a shoe at the head of a state, and most people seemed to feel that while it was inappropriate, Bush had it coming! By the way, Muntadhir al-Zaidi, the 'shoe journalist' is now being considered a right choice to become prime minister!

From Mayank

December 17, 2008 5:10 PM
Sushmita Thanks for appreciating. I always write poems in English, but most of them are related to love and live. Abt getting them published- well, no idea at all how to go abt it. Btw, I want to write a novel too- just one, but thats a crazy dream of mine. Completed just abt 50 pages.

From sandhya panicker

December 17, 2008 8:29 PM
thanks for the reply :) The Bush shoe throwing contest was too funny!

From anilata

December 18, 2008 10:12 AM
thanks for the update SSH. may be who knows, he (the shoe journo)will make a better PM than the outgoing Prez. as of now, God save him.

From pawandeep

December 20, 2008 11:22 AM
So much happens in Indian Politics, and sometimes there are types of comments made by the politicians( type of comment made by A.R.Antulay about the conspiracy theory regarding the mumbai blasts) , which requires to be either appreciated or should be condemned in strong words. I was just thinking that maybe every week, you could post a column specifically reserved for India, in KT or as a guest in HT.

From sushmita

December 20, 2008 5:14 PM
anilatha, what does SSH stand for?!! pawandeep, i'm really quite sick of these absurd indian politicians, and i'm pretty sure that they are so thick-skinned that they are beyond caring. they are just a bunch of pests who we have to tolerate -- in the name of democracy...

From Mayank

December 20, 2008 9:08 PM
NO reply to my comment :( Mummeeeee

From pawandeep

December 20, 2008 9:39 PM
great, you can use really strong words to condemn the wrong things.

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From sushmita

December 21, 2008 4:59 PM
nahin, nahin, please finish ur book. abt the poems, u shd get in touch with the publishing houses -- the problem is that there's no market for poems. but the smaller publishers may be interested.

From Mayank

December 21, 2008 5:49 PM
will try my best

From anila

December 22, 2008 11:43 AM
dear sushmita b, Merry Christmas to you, May the Christmas bring u & all yr readers a lot of happiness. May Santa come to ur house & deliver a lot of gifts. countries like HK, singapore etc. offer spectacular views on occasions like this spending crores of rupees preparing for the event yrs in advance.

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