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&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16524" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#16099</link><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 11:14:52 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:16099</guid><dc:creator>ss</dc:creator><description>Just one thing would like to point out. When your Spanish and American friends spoke about the typical nature of Indian wife who stands by her husband for everything. I wld like to ask them, &amp;quot;How about Hillary Clinton. She has no Indian blood ruuning in her yet she stood by her husband. Hats to Shiney&amp;#39;s wife but a sincere request. Mrs Ahuja just keep your mouth shut. The medical report says it was forceful act. Yet this foolish woman says he is framed. yes Shiney is any day damn sexy but he was too confident about his looks. &lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=16099" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#15214</link><pubDate>Wed, 12 Aug 2009 01:42:16 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:15214</guid><dc:creator>Kiran</dc:creator><description>@Renu..you won&amp;#39;t believe it, but its been several days since I&amp;#39;ve even checked this particular blog. Good thing I did. Really really thanks for the lovely comment. Believe me I get my nice 8 hours of sleep. Its not like I take time out from other things to write all this. This is a spare time thing, hehehe. Nice to finally see one woman on the right side for a change, than supporting some nonsense men in here. As for being a leader, oh man would I love to be one. Like I always say if I could get more women on my side like you, there wouldn&amp;#39;t be so many problems. What to do when so many of our sisters are mislead and treading the wrong path. Yes well I talk the way I do, because I love to be in control and be the queen of my life. I don&amp;#39;t go around dictating what others do, but because of age old customs it does become hard for women such as myself to be so outspoken without getting alot of resistence. As for taking panga with me, if anyone gets in my way, I know how to take them out! Once again thanks for the comment. We need more women like you, keep it up.&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=15214" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#15100</link><pubDate>Fri, 07 Aug 2009 19:10:18 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:15100</guid><dc:creator>renu</dc:creator><description>my my my !!! never seen or better say, read anything like this!!!to kiran i would like to say u r one of a kind!god no longer makes like u, u r a wild billi, i can say, and before u start clawing at me, this a compliment, my dear! m really happy to come across  someone like u, even though its through the net.Through teeth and nail u defend your cause, and if m not mistaken, going to the extent of depriving yourself of sleep. Rarely seen, oops sorry,read someone like you. U should join politics,defending women&amp;#39;s rights and causes,aapse panga koi nahin le sakta,and we women will be better off with a leader like u.(if u r not alredy doing so, from what i hv read u seem hardly someone sitting idle at home). keep going kiran, we women are with you.&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=15100" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14981</link><pubDate>Wed, 05 Aug 2009 14:44:08 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14981</guid><dc:creator>Joey</dc:creator><description>Oye Raj tu kyun chup ho gaya yaar.&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14981" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14833</link><pubDate>Sun, 02 Aug 2009 20:15:29 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14833</guid><dc:creator>anu</dc:creator><description>in response to susmitha bose&amp;#39;s &amp;quot;I think that&amp;#39;s hogwash,&amp;quot; I said very loudly, a bit too loudly. But I was still snuffed out by triumphant strains of: &amp;quot;It&amp;#39;s alright if the man sleeps around outside marriage -- the woman will sulk but then come to terms. God forbid if the woman does that; actually, you know what? Indian women never sleep around!&amp;quot;

hello sushmita bose, if indian women never sleeps around,  then with whom are the men of india sleeping outside of marriage with, African? or russian? or KINNERA, GANDHARVA?

U have said that anyone in right mind would sleep with shiny ahuja, does that not include indian woman?
For ur kind information, all the respect indian woman had is no more, once u demand respect; the true recognition only comes unasked for, u seem to be bcraving for that respect because indian woman prototype doesn&amp;#39;t exist anymore as far as i see in my day to day life; Ultimate the fate of indian woman with this sort of weird mentality having no values but demanding holiness  will lead to hypocrisy; and it&amp;#39;s quiet paradoxical u ar expecting that from ur husband
this all will lead to psychotic problems like american and european women with multiple marriages and relationships; only difference between indian men and women is men cannot hide while women manage to hide;Men are lot more honest from my personal experience, i had many relationships with them
Why do u think signs of rape suggest RAPE Only; In passion and extreme sex, violence can happen, and women may have these signs even if it&amp;#39;s consensual, 
I hope u stop discriminatin men from women, husband from wife, americans from indians, etc when it comes to basic instincts and think of what is the truth in ur heart frankly about ur instincts and thoughts of any other men besides ur husband!

&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14833" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14644</link><pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:28:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14644</guid><dc:creator>Bhargava</dc:creator><description>@Kiran 
You go girl.  You have every right to ***** that stupid raj.  And he deserves that.  And don&amp;#39;t expect much support from the &amp;quot;bharatiya naaris&amp;quot;.  They are brainwashed to tolerate all the injustices in the name of culture.&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14644" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14537</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 15:33:55 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14537</guid><dc:creator>Mona</dc:creator><description>Kiran.. its all good, i can understand that internet can be a bit misleading, i mean the way you type and the way you speak is different right. But as long as i have it cleared. At M, my parents are still quite strict about me going out clubbing, i still haven&amp;#39;t gone clubbing lolll.. simply because it goes on till too late and they are just worried about me cuz of the crowd. And i have to be home by 10 or 11 whenver i go out, sometimes i push it to 12 or 1 but thats very raree.. so yeap, i am pretty much tied down, till i introduce them to my bf and then we get engaged and only then they will let me go out till whatever time because they know i am with someone they trust and know. I can be at the movies with my brother till late and they don&amp;#39;t care. So i don&amp;#39;t really argue much anymore as i understand their point. 
Well, i guess we are all done with this discussion. C ya guys on another blog :)&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14537" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14522</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 13:21:51 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14522</guid><dc:creator>M</dc:creator><description>I am done with this discussion too . Write whatever crap you want to write but I have made my point . 

Whatever you write , I won&amp;#39;t reply to it here because I am not coming back to this topic . ( This is especially for Love Guru and his pseudo German avatars )  

Sushmita , 

I know I used your blog as a battleground but that was because I was provoked to do so and sometimes , you have to respond to cheap people 

Have fun &lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14522" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14517</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 13:14:51 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14517</guid><dc:creator>Kiran</dc:creator><description>Okay, everybody, I think we are finally at the end of this discussion, since this has now turned into a German forum, and its really not going anywhere. This love guru a so called proponent of Darwinism and evolution or whatever other crap he believes in lets all wish him a happy life filled with HIV/AIDS and sexually transmitted diseases since that is where he is going to end up oneday. Maybe then he will remember all of us. He&amp;#39;s like a kid who will play with fire until his fingers get burned then he&amp;#39;ll go crying back to his mama! Bye everyone.&lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14517" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14515</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 13:08:14 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14515</guid><dc:creator>Kiran</dc:creator><description>@M..you&amp;#39;re right some people do have their own opinions and that&amp;#39;s fair enough.........@Mona..hey I wasn&amp;#39;t saying anything bad, I was just assuming, but since you explained yourself that makes a whole lot of sense. Very good for you that you are independent, thats fair enough some people like to give it one chance before walking out the door, but I&amp;#39;m just the kind of person even once is TOO much, because I would never be able to look at my husband again. Its just that the way you initially came across that sick love guru was praising you for that, and if you read his posts carefully you can tell he&amp;#39;s the kind of guy to not stop at just one affair and will keep on going until he dies of HIV/AIDS. But glad that you aint as weak as I thought. Its just that when you didn&amp;#39;t respond soon, and love guru just started with all his nonsense I must have thought who knows, because as you can see there are some people in here with different names all of a sudden speaking German!!! Weird isn&amp;#39;t it. Good luck Mona, and hope you never cross that bridge of infidelity. &lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14515" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item><item><title>re: Is Mrs Shiney Ahuja a good Indian wife?</title><link>http://blogs.livemint.com/blogs/still_single_in_the_city/archive/2009/07/12/is-mrs-shiney-ahuja-a-good-indian-wife.aspx#14507</link><pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 11:04:40 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">69a35da2-a32a-4865-9f9a-b94bb9d2309f:14507</guid><dc:creator>M</dc:creator><description>Lady of the rings ,
If you want to respond to my posts , do so . You are welcome but any of this crap that you come up with ( a guy like you who cannot even speak German properly) is not going to scare me . I mean how  idiotic can one be ? If there was a stupidometer, the reading would show maximum . lol &lt;img src="http://blogs.livemint.com/aggbug.aspx?PostID=14507" width="1" height="1"&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>