Should India have its own 9/11 memorial? - The Expat Blog

Should India have its own 9/11 memorial?

Melissa A. Bell - Saturday, September 12, 2009 12:10 PM
Eight years ago, 34 Indians were murdered at the World Trade Center in New York. It’s not a huge number. Many more died in Bhopal, in Mumbai, in Ayodhya. But after the UK and the US, India lost the most citizens out of any other country in the world on that bright blue morning.

And now, according to an article in the New York Times, the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey (the company that owns the remains of the WTC), are offering cities free of cost the twisted remnants of steel that once stood towering over Manhattan. About 1,800 pieces are available to any city in the world that requests one. I’d like Mumbai to ask for one.

Every year on this day, I remember the worst day of my own life: the terror, the pain, the fear. But this year I also remembered something else. Those shining, beautiful days afterwards, in which we walked around shorn of our defenses and our pride. United by pain, but united nonetheless. It was a heady time. For a few weeks, we were not strangers, the world embraced us, and we were all just people vitally aware of our own fragility.

Tim Kreider wrote of this feeling today in the New York Times:

“Jealously tended hierarchies temporarily evaporated, and the worthless currency of human decency reacquired street value… Graffiti appeared that actually spoke instead of just marking territory, like the overheard murmurs of a city talking to itself or fitfully dreaming. I saw a spray-painted message that would’ve seemed trite or sentimental a week before: YOU ARE ALIVE.”

Rather than dwell on the terror wrought that day, the wreckage later strewn across Iraq and Afghanistan, the ill will the US has rightly brought on ourselves, I’d like to see the world celebrate what has lingered of that feeling—the walls that have been torn down, the relationships that have been strengthened. Eight years ago, India and the US were not close. Now, the US is lucky to have India as one of its strongest allies.

I’d like to see a 9/11 memorial in India. And I’d like to see a 26/11 memorial in New York. We need a reminder, not that terror exists, but that after the terror, we are still alive, we are not strangers, and we should all be embracing one another more often.

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From Upendra M Pradhan

September 12, 2009 9:55 PM
Melissa... beautifully written... as an Indian and a world citizen... THANKS for sharing your sentiments... Yes we are all survivors and together we can make a better world.

From Value of Life

September 13, 2009 5:05 PM
It may sound very harsh, but India is getting enough terror dosages regularly to keep memories alive.If we keep building memorials then half of GDP will go in to this effort. On lighter note, we like to do more memorial service to our living legends like Mayawati et al.

From Jose

September 15, 2009 7:04 PM
hahhahhahahha Value of Life: How very true but nevertheless this memorial is far better than what Mayawati and her cronies have been doing so far. But than this is India mere jaan, yeha kuch be ho sakta hai. Amen

From Value for Life

September 16, 2009 4:51 PM
@ Jose, Let us not think about common people. They are so low on the social ladder that even feeding them twice is not justified. The irony of life is, these very people elect monsters like Politicians to feed on them. There are 3 type of people here...Powerful, not so powerful & weak . Unfortunately first 2 type either sit in the Parliament / large business houses & rest are out on the road struggling for every petty basic things in life.

From Melissa A. Bell

September 17, 2009 7:37 AM
@Value for Life I am not a total sucker for memorials, but I do have to say that the amount of terror doesn't totally seem to keep the memory alive. It's kind of an amazing asset and a vice: India moves on, doesn't let terror hold them back, marches forward, yadda, yadda, yadda. But then they don't keep the memory alive and don't demand change a la voter turnout in Southern Mumbai... What to do?

From Value for Life

September 17, 2009 11:39 AM
@Melissa - I agree on your analysis about short term memory of ours. We managed to forget every sad part in our last 1000 years history. Yes, we still cherish good times we had & keep on praying that some one will come & change our life. This wait is endless as that some one lies very with in us & it will never come out unless we unleash it.

From Nigeria CV's

September 18, 2009 1:39 PM
HI There !! Very nice article. You showed the value of life. Thank you. Regards, Annete Duffel

From Rahul

September 20, 2009 11:55 PM
9/11 memorial??? In Mumbai??? Why the hell would WE host a 9/11 memorial??? So should we now also host a memorial for the thousands of Palestenians that Isreal killed during its latest Nazi style bombing of the West Bank and Gaza? and the one for which your country's administration much less protest, even stood by the racist, imperialist Israeli regime reiterating Isreal's so called right to self-defence??? Like killing innocent three year olds Palestinian children would insulate them from suicide bombing or rocket attacks??? Why don't you ask your government to host such a memorial for the Palestinian children inside the Central Park, NYC? Bring their skeletons to the US and make a memorial. You only have to REMEMBER it once a year, there are tens and thousands of people in this world who GO through it every day because of your policy towards them! Their lives are obviously less previous than American lives, right? Nobody cares to speak when Israel kills Palestinians with American consent but we should build a memorial for Americans killed eight years ago! Sure 9/11 was a great tragedy but looking through the Karma lens why don't you Americans really become accountable for your actions, pin responsibility as to why the Bush administration not only stood like a mute spectator but also encouraged (the Isrealis knew that Obama would not sanction such a plan and started and finished off the operation before Obama's inaugration at the White House) the Isrealis by bring in the fake 'Isreal's right to self-defence theory'? And why in this world we like to bring in your crap (and the bad karma that comes along with it) to our cities. Don't we have enough of our own crap that needs disposal??? India's relationship with America is no love affair, you need new allies, we need uranium - thats all. All else is hogwash! Melissa, for chrissake! Stop torturing the readers of this blog!!! Give the other two ladies a chance to speak you hyperactive journalist! Your blogs hardly makes sense anyways! 9/11 in Mumbai, ha! Feeling using that adjective Obama used for Kayne West!

From Jose

September 22, 2009 1:40 PM
Rahul: I loved this sentence of yours ....."India's relationship with America is no love affair, you need new allies, we need uranium - thats all." Well put, i loved it. Hit the nail on the head. But the rest, Man, putting out your opinion across is one thing and letting your emotion guide your pen is another. Melissa was just expressing her wish, and not trying to impose it on anyone like Mayawati and her chamchas are doing.

From Priyanka

October 7, 2009 6:40 AM
Hey Melissa, liked your posts, wondering if you are on twitter also?

From Melissa A. Bell

October 18, 2009 6:38 PM
@Priyanka I am @melissabell. See you there!

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